wow.

only married 3 years, and things are this messy.Plus all those "external events", are heavy stuff to deal with, in even a strong marriage.

you sound right in your summary that basically, he sounds like he "doesnt want to be married" any more.

there's a lot of stuff to get through.

I hope that your husband sorts out his life in a sane manner soon.
Sounds like you may be waiting for quite a while, though \:\(


it also sounds like, though you dont say explicitly what his "passion" is, that he may be going through a male "join a band" style MidLife Crisis. you might want to check out the MLC forums, to see if that fits or not.


Last edited by Dom R; 09/06/07 11:33 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle