You can still comfort him, from afar, which is better than OW, she is probably drowning him in bleck. What a weird and yes, draining day. From one thing to the next. But look at your day:
You are:
1) Seeking help for yourself (something your H won't do right now)
2) Gainfully employed with good work ethics
3) A very good mother, who will drop anything to take care of your kiddos.
4) A supportive wife and friend (offer to support H even when they do the things they do to us).
Once again, BETTER person, working on getting even better. Way to go!
I'm doing ok. Yes we have texted back and forth a bit. He said that he is better, just alot of unanswered questions. He is supposed to call to speak to the kids in a bit. He has tomorrow off work so I need to find out if he plans on taking the kids, I had some GAL activities lined up for Friday night/ Sat morning.
Does your work have some sort of grievance counseling program you H cold go to?. I feel bad for both of you I know how dificult it is to deal with your Marriage Issue and all of these other things come up. I have had my share.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Yoyo, just plan on heading to my best friends, and maybe go to a movie, etc. Then maybe breakfast with her. I might go down a bit early since she wont be home till after nine and go have dinner with another friend, gotta line that up first. Have a small window since H has to work at 1 on saturday.
Yes they have grief counselors at work the next couple days.
