But there was nothing #3

[LL44]

You can still comfort him, from afar, which is better than OW, she is probably drowning him in bleck. What a weird and yes, draining day. From one thing to the next. But look at your day:

You are:

1) Seeking help for yourself (something your H won't do right now)

2) Gainfully employed with good work ethics

3) A very good mother, who will drop anything to take care of your kiddos.

4) A supportive wife and friend (offer to support H even when they do the things they do to us).

Once again, BETTER person, working on getting even better. Way to go!