I just don't get it. We go around and around about his working with her and interacting with her. We had another go this evening. I don't want to cloud up my evenings with this crap - I want to come home and relax, enjoy dinner, share a bottle of wine - and yet when he says things like, "we won't work if I work with her" - and he isn't willing to take the steps to NOT work with her, I'm left believing that he just isn't interested in US working.
I can totally relate with you about the being so tired mentally. I told him tonight that I don't have it in me to keep living like this - it will be 2 YEARS in October since he began having feelings for her. I've done all I can. I think me moving out might be the one thing that hits him hard enough to actually change. My therapist suggested it a year ago and I thought she was nuts. She may have been right.
Me: 34 H: 39 M: 7 yrs H A 12/05-8/07
If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley
