"Restated that I'm not angry at her at all, and then took a shot and said that I understand how you got emotionally where you are (done with me), I wish that it were otherwise, but that I'm largely to blame because I came to my realizations too late. "
---RESTATED... does that say anything to you??? Reintroducing R talk after you just finished R talk, what, TWELVE HOURS AGO????
Got a one line reply back: "Thank you for listening"
Well, that is polite. Clearly shows she is not interested in R talk. But, it seems you know that because you next wrote:
"I think, right now, she's just burnt out on me and the R"
WOULD YOU STOP OBSESSING OVER THE R AND MAKING HER TRY TO SEE IT YOUR WAY ALL THE TIME. YES YOU ARE TOO SO DOING THAT.
GEEZ. She has said she thinks time and space will be good for your R. You just want to make doubly sure it takes HER taking PLENTY of time and PLENTY of space, because you are sure going to make her work for both.
