Husband moving in with OW

[lester]

The WS is really messed up not only mine and yours but everyone i've read about here. So he probably is going from falling in love with you, and playing the fence. ML is not a mistake unless it makes you feel used. If you are ok with it then I'd say it's not wrong. One reason to ML is taht there are endorphins that are released that help form pair bonds and this can help you two feel closer.

The key here I think is what my DB coach called leaving the cup halfway full. You decide if and when to ML and give affection and then move to something else AS IF you could take it or leave it. If he gets to drink the whole glass of your affection then his thirst is quenched. Leave him wanting more:) Maybe a bill clinton or something... I don't know but you get the point.