And I let it happen
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you had to, she has to make her own decisions, it's on her not on you that she divided the family.

No, it's never fair. Why can't you just tell her she has to take care of it? she is the one who left, why would you have to pick up her mess? I dont' see one reason why you'd have to miss your son's concert, have her fly D to you if she can't take care of her, she needs to do the leg work, not you


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.