I'm w/ Mrs NOP and lou on this one. she's dangerous.

Corri, its not that HD is in danger of being charged for this particular incident; its that she has revealed the potential for setting up something worse in the future.

She's a man-hater.
not just a "man hater", but a professional man-hater, who makes her living exacting revenge ("justice") on men every day, for their transgressions against the "fairer" sex. {insert eye-roll here}

The dysfunction didn't just start out on this level, but has grown over time, with constant exposure to and reinforcement of such attitudes, and has now reached the point of being dangerous.
Not unlike what MWD, I think, mentioned in one of her books about "bad support"...LD types getting together and celebrating their LDness..."men are pigs", etc, etc. It feeds itself. Chrom's wife hangs out on one of those websites. very bad. lots of man-bashing, and high-fiving of each other for s-starving their hubbies ("those pigs!").
a man-hater isn't necessarily a "dangerous" thing, all by herself. You might know someone with "anger management" issues...same thing. BUT, if you found out that the anger-management person was also a gun owner, you might really want to watch your step around them. KWIM?

If I were HD, I'd be separating my finances, and my sleeping arrangements, toot sweet. If an early-morning fondle = a "violation", imagine what rolling over into morning wood would be?? (as if we do that on purpose). The name "Bobbit" comes to mind...