Guys: It's called the Oedipus complex. As if you didn't know.

All women unconsciously want to sleep with their fathers. It doesn't matter how brutal that father may be, that's who they want.

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Therefore, she needs HD to render her vulnerable through deliberate brutality. In a sense what I mean is she won't spread her legs to reveal the "wound" so he needs to pin her down and do it for her.

Sorry, IMO you are completely off your rocker if you believe this!!


This is meant metaphorically. The "wound" is her vulnerability through sexuality. She won't have sex with HD because she won't be vulnerable with him. Mojo is saying he needs to force her to be vulnerable. I agree. He can only do this by strapping on that brass set (again metaphorically!). Her kick ass behaviours are all about stepping into the man shaped hole (as Mrs Nop once put it) in their M. And to her a man is somewhat brutal. She is really not comfortable in that man shaped hole but she does not trust HD to fill it. He has given her no reason to believe he can fill it.

But he will.

Fran


if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs
Erica Jong