Husband is correct. The more he sees her the more real she becomes and he sees things he doesn't like. The less he sees you the more he misses you. At least this is how it has worked with my H and the OW (so far).

Faith

H 48
W 57
M 15 yrs
T 18 yrs
No children
EA 1/12/06
Moved out 3/10/07 & 8/16/07
Back on 5/18/07
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