Another way to look at it is that MsHD never acts sexy or sexual so in her mind if HD wants to have sex with her basically he just wants to use her for her girl parts. What she doesn't understand is that HD would actually like to achieve emotional connection with her through sexuality. However, she is far, far away from allowing herself to be that vulnerable. Therefore, she needs HD to render her vulnerable through deliberate brutality. In a sense what I mean is she won't spread her legs to reveal the "wound" so he needs to pin her down and do it for her. I just wonder if there's enough brass in the world to coat HD's balls for that assignment.


"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver