Hey Sandi,
hope today is a better day for you.
Amy had some GREAT things to say to you! Totally listen to her \:D


I have some extra things of my own:

Your feelings will always fluctuate. To make decisions solely based on "your feelings", is never a good idea. even mother theresa had "dark days", apparently.

If you "want to get excited about it"... you can. But here's the thing. it takes two:

One person, to say/do the things that make you feel good about things.
And one person (YOU!) to let that person know what to do/say to make you feel good.

If you figure out the things that make you feel good.. and you get your husband to do them for you.. it's practically guaranteed that you Will feel good \:\)

I think we know that one thing you need very much, is to be held.
So I hope you go ask your husband for that today.

I think some part of you is afraid that he will.

Dont be afraid any more.


My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle