Hey everyone! Running off to the park for a picnic with the kids, but a quick note here.
Hey Heim! Thanks for writing.
Originally Posted By: Heimlich
Now, if his "hard discussions" relates to ending the M, that's one thing. But, if I'm reading you right, "hard discussions" in the context of counselling infers a deep look at yourself. I'm thinking he's gonna get that.
He's in therapy and doesn't feel like he needs to take any more hard looks at himself re the M that I know of. I think hard discussions have to do with me expressing my feelings, how we work moving forward re partnership and the kids, the house, etc.
Originally Posted By: Heimlich
Regarding not telling his parents, is he a mama's boy? I ask because is he just afraid of disappointing them. If not, I'd take that as an additional sign of positive/doubt.
He's not a mama's boy. His mother suffers from such extreme depression that she's paranoid and in the care of the state. He has no contact with her. The parents I'm referring to are his beloved father and his stepmother (of about 12 years). He's come to the point where he feels he's his own adult and doesn't need to be concerned what they (or anyone else) think about his choices. He said they'd notice his ring being gone, and stepmom is *extremely* outspoken and would certainly have a few things to say.
Originally Posted By: Heimlich
No clue on how to react to the OW/ex friend's email. Probably best to just ignore it. Sigh, I guess you'll just have to be less "sophisticated" about all this new age living than they are. Party pooper.
Yeah, I really am. Who knew I was so traditional, such a prude? I'd really like to be the bigger person here, though, which is why I was considering responding. Seems like not responding might make it look like I'm wallowing. Maybe I should take a page from H and not worry about what anyone else thinks!
