Hi MariS,
Haven't posted to you before.
I think you did a great job seeing DH and OW!!! Not sure how I would have survived. I saw you had a two year old. Mine just turned three and is a boy.

The answer to your MLC stages request... It is in the second post of the MLC forum called 'MLC all resources in one thread'.
You can find the stages there and the timeline, and reconnection and much more. Yesterday there was an interesting thread from a few years ago. I'll see if I can bump it. It's not in the resources list.
Well go steady and work on you!!!