muddled and angry: Puddle's sencond thread

[Heimlich]

Puddle,

Sure, someone to help facilitate hard discussions would be good

Pro-marriage or not, I've a feeling any decent T/C is going to have a few thoughts on your H feelings/actions.

Now, if his "hard discussions" relates to ending the M, that's one thing. But, if I'm reading you right, "hard discussions" in the context of counselling infers a deep look at yourself. I'm thinking he's gonna get that.

You're right on the no expectations thing, but this is a tiny positive sign.

One question. Regarding not telling his parents, is he a mama's boy? I ask because is he just afraid of disappointing them. If not, I'd take that as an additional sign of positive/doubt.

No clue on how to react to the OW/ex friend's email. Probably best to just ignore it. Sigh, I guess you'll just have to be less "sophisticated" about all this new age living than they are. Party pooper.

BD