Lil said I had a friend who was in the animal rescue business. She saw plenty of disgusting cruelty committed on innocent creatures. After a while her default condition was to assume that everyone is an animal abuser (even me and her family) until proven otherwise.
Subject 1 Hairdog, I see Lil's post as having some validity. Your W does some nasty D cases and they are influencing her thoughts. When BB worked as the med nurse when the hospitals had a co-dependency treatment program, I saw changes in BB and to BB more men became controlling selfish jerks.
We never locked the front screen door during the day and left the front door wide open (1969 to 1991) before I started working in the group home and BB started working in the Psych center.
We both saw some violent people at each of our jobs so decided to keep the front door closed and some times locked during the day.
It took 3 years of not working at those places, but now we are back to leaving the front door open (screen door closed) some days.
Work issues do rub off into some people’s personal lives. I sense that happening in your M.
Subject 2: If you announced a sexual moratorium, what is with the boob touching? I know biology (mine any way) influences me to think about boob touching, but a sexual moratorium includes dropping all sexual contact in my mind.
I sort of had a sexual moratorium going before I read NMMNG and quit giving BB foot and back rubs to boot, for over a month. Occasionally I put my arm around BB or she touched my foot when we were in bed, but for the most part I dropped the touchy-feely part of our R.
Subject 3 sexfiend/rapist? JK. (Lou at confession but I am not Catholic) I have sinned. I gave BB a back/foot/hair/leg/arm rub and touched her boobs 6 times again last night, second night in a row. What must I do to redeam myself father?
Am I am a bad person? Do I need to attend Sex addicts anonymous (SA}? JK
If what you did makes you a sex addict, I am a lost cause; shoot me!
