Retro is next Friday - almost 1 week away - it can't come quickly enough.

I didn't expect him to quit at this late date. I have asked and wished he would quit, but I always *knew* that he would have a very difficult time doing so. He has said from last FALL to now that he doesn't believe that our marriage can work if he still works there. I believed that I was more important to him than he is showing. I also believe that our marriage can't work with him in the situation he is in. He needs to do something. Clearly I can't do a thing.

The OW is in her late 30's and still lives at home with her parents. She saw my H as her way out of that situation. She hasn't tried to contact him in the last few weeks and he has said that in the past he was always the one to reach out to her, not vice versa. I don't believe that my husband can avoid making eyes at her. I think she could walk away, I don't think he can. But then, I don't really know her, so it's just all a guess. I'm sure with him being back at work she's beginning to think that maybe he really does care about her - obviously I don't know that for sure. He told her earlier this summer that he was planning on quitting, she even offered to quit (as she agreed it was a strained working enviornment) and he told her he would be the one to quit....

blech...this is the same stuff from last year...

Last edited by ediemarie; 09/06/07 05:11 PM.
Me: 34
H: 39
M: 7 yrs
H A 12/05-8/07

If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley