You'll like this one even better. Last night W went to bed with a migraine (got medicine for her). I had to lock the door and the keys were in her bag next to her phone.
Opened bag, got keys, closed bag, locked door and went to bed feeling proud of myself. For me, if I saw the phone and read some information from OP, then I would be thinking 'What are they planning','When is D day'. So I blank it out and don't look at anything anymore. Helps me through the day.
I am taking the view that if I ignore the OP completely (fortunately he live 150 miles away and I don't know him), then this put W in difficult position - she is the one that is having A, not me and I will keep supporting her in every other endeavour and show my love in many little ways.
So my advice to all of you - ignore the phone, act as though it is an emotional cruch that one day the WAS will not need and live life for yourself.
Bleck is good, at least that means that you are still breathing. I hate the blurgh days though, they really suck!
