I've actually had the thought that "differentiation" is kind of like "probability" because they're both concepts that the human mind can't comprehend or approach directly. That's why people keep going to Vegas and keep having cr*ppy relationships. I think if there were two perfectly differentiated people who formed a relationship their relationship would function perfectly because every conflict would be like a game of tic-tac-toe played by adults. The cat would always win and the problem would be resolved in short order.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
