Lwb - Yes he is going with me on vacation, for sure. We will spend 5 1/2 hours driving there and the same on the way back. I plan on getting the 5 Love Languages CD and listening to it while we drive. I mentioned this to him before and he didn't seem to object. I told him that it would be good to listen to whether we are together or not. I too hope that this is the turn around week.

jak - You are right about the mystery working. He was at the house when I got home last night. He took a look at me and said Wow, you look nice. I understand what you mean about DBing for the rest of our lives. I too plan on doing that, however I think it will be easier when my heart doesn't feel like it is so exposed. When I am more secure in our relationship.

Thank you both for your input. It means so much to all of us to know there are others out there who we can talk to that don't judge us and think we are idiots for hanging in there waiting for them to get their heads out of there a!@.


Faith


H 48
W 57
M 15 yrs
T 18 yrs
No children
EA 1/12/06
Moved out 3/10/07 & 8/16/07
Back on 5/18/07
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