Piecing - H still contacts OW

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I don't know why H has to keep in contact either. My H has a responsible character so may be he feels that he is responsible and he has to make sure she is OK after all that happened. H also told me he has never in his life dumped anybody. So this is a first for him. I think he does not want to hurt her more by telling her not to call him ever again.

My biggest thing is actually the fact that he is still omitting this part of life with me. I am OK with no details, but H tells me everything that happens during the day, EXCEPT anything regarding OW. To me, that's lying. I am very honest and open person so this is unacceptable.