Tucson or Bust, part 3

[lettie]

Clearly what HD needs to do is to is:

1) Fully recognize that he is dysfunctioning as a random clingy pursuer.
2) Fully recognize that MsHD is dysfunctioning as a deliberate brutal avoider.

This is dead on...and I think the only one who can change things or turn things around is HD...he will have to be brave enough to put the brakes on...not threaten D, but make it clear that he won't tolerate this cr*p anymore. And stick with it forever.