I wanted to add the reason I state this is because I have been in a M where my H had poor boundaries (as well as myself) and it made me anxious and annoyed with him most of the time. Ever since our reconciliation, he has been much firmer in his boundaries and so have I. We are really at peace with one another now and fairly happy I'd say. But that would not have happened without the boundaries. They are so necessary for a functional R.
