I agree that the college fund thibg was not a threat toward the kids. I just saw it as an easy hot button issue to hit to show that she is p*ssed. It worked. I don't want to lynch her but I am significantly concerned about her mental health. I think that she has no idea how blessed she is to have HD because a lot of men would have long since ceased to care. She is an intiguing person and is surely capable of being a wonderful marriage partner if she gets out of her own way.

Karen