Limbo, Wish I had some great advice to give you, but just wanted you to know that it's probably not as bad as it seems.
As your name says -- you're in limbo. If your H does pull out of going to retrouvaille out of "laziness", well, you know what, maybe he won't come around. I hate to write that, but that's BS on his part. However, stay positive, don't give him a reason not to go.
If he moves back to the office with OW, I'd be less concerned if he went to the weekend with you.
Keep calm (as possible) for your children. Even before all of this heppened between my W and I, we knew our oldest D was going to be trouble. I snap sometimes, but you can DB your children too. Kill 'em with kindness (and, when that doesn't work, just kill 'em )
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
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