For the record, I was in no way advocated that HD threaten to D his W over this, just that he needs to deal with it in a swift and sure way so that she understands that such things are never to be done. What that swift and sure was is, is for him to decide.
Other people's comments on the matter did not influece my position, although my own heightened emotionality about children probably did.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"