No one is lynching Mrs HD. What is wrong with saying that behavior is unacceptable? I can't speak for any of you, but the bar is set way higher in my own R in terms of acceptability. If I was M to HD and he did not address those issues I would be quite frankly disgusted. If you let someone walk over you, they often will, especially if they are F-ed up. It is not HD job to fix MrsHD, he can only respond to what she does and his lack of response in the past is a little mind-numbing to me. But that is ME. I'm just giving my take on the situation and considering most people are in agreement maybe it is an accurate assessment. Just being contrary doesn't mean anything in this case.