It's funny how much these WAS are the same. At one point my H said he did not know what I was waiting for - he just wanted to file. Finally I said go and file if you must - I am just not ready to do it. It's like they want US to be in agreement with the D to ease their conscience or something. They want it all - the OP and to be best buds with us, but what they do not get is that our R will totally be different - co parenting is a lot diff than being good friends...
She seems to want everything like my H did...hang in there...my H came out of LALA land - not sure exactly why - I think part of it was the instability of OW...
Not sure what else to offer - I need to ask my H your question about me going dark and the effect it had or did not have on him... I will get back to you!
HB
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing
