So are you people on this board, who have so much experience working with relationships, saying the only two alternatives HD has are to either shut up and let her control everything, or go to war? Do you really think that is the only way to deal with this?
It was for me. And it worked.
Shutting up about it is what she is used to and IMO, almost expects it. To shut about it and allow her to control everything will just make the whole sitch between the two worse. The longer this goes on, the more she will fight him fighting back.
