To answer your question as to why. People lose there sense of value or direction. That is why they stray. Sometimes they feel as though they have too, because "they don't feel it at home". For some it is a sense of excitement, new and dangerous. For others it is a cry for help! I am sure he is flattered by the fact some young chicky shows him attention!
I agree though if you think about, what kind of person is willing to break up a marriage! Not a very good one. Unfortunately the enemy strikes when the union is vulnerable, you and H. whether or not you realize it must have been having some issues. A weakness in the bond and since probably neither one of you were communicating it he felt like you did not care. First understand why and where the weakness was, then start to repair it, then forgive, and then decide whether or not your H. is worth your efforts.
Since you are here I would suspect you believe he is.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
