It is so hard to live without expectations though. I am working on that but that is the hardest thing for me right now. I so want there to be a time limit on this pain and suffering but sad to say I have realized there is not and I can not force one upon him. I just have to realize that he is feeling it too and he is the confused one so maybe this is harder on him then me since he is causing the pain and knows it.
Hang in there and hopefully he will come around. Patience is the key from what I am being told.
