Oh, and I did forget to mention yesterday in all my self-generated hoopla, that the other morning I did carry my W into the bedroom, made out with her a little bit, and told her I was unhappy with her spending so much time on the computer. Last night as soon as I walked into the room and sat in the easy chair, she shut down the web browser and with just a little protest (i.e. "you promise you'll kick me out after a few minutes, and NO rocking") sat in my lap and we cuddled. Ironically enough, I was the one who feel asleep.
perfect.
So.. Im not mad at you. Take a deep breath go walk around, feel whatever you feel, and come back read your reply to me and retry to answer the questions.
did you get the questions you were confused about in my post to you worked out yet?