Donna, It sounds like you are letting go of some of the control and that may be seen as a 180, so good for you. It really is not about what other people see anyways, it is about letting go of things out of our control and focusing on ourselves. Your life sounds very full and fulfilling, as if you had no time to wallow. I remember what my brother said, " Look at your life compared to H's. No one would trade places with him." It is true for us. We are LBS but they are the ones who have to live with themselves.

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Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
"Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."