It sounds like you want to reconcile and save your marriage. Go from there. Let everything you do be about saving this marriage. Even if you fail and end up divorced you will know that you did your best to DB. Show restraint and remind yourself will this action or interaction lead to a positive outcome? If you do not want a divorce then do not faciltate it in any way. Yes, you can protect yourself but you can also stick it through. I cannot believe you have a five month old at home and are going through all of this while nursing. That is akin to a man leaving a wife on chemo. I know you are healthy and all, but having a new baby takes a lot of energy! You need to sleep all the time to nurse.
Last edited by mkultra; 09/06/0704:33 AM.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
