But there was nothing #3

[Kali]

oh I know I did nothing wrong. She still thinks she hasn't and tells everyone and anyone at work that. Of course I don't work with a bunch of dummies.

Yeah work is being nice about it, it would be nicer if they would make her transfer to another location. But hey can't win them all, huh?

[Dr LOve]

Cali,

Don't hide just do your job. she may ask for a transfer

[Kali]

Cali,

Don't hide just do your job. she may ask for a transfer

Yeah I dont ever see that happening. She has made it very clear through my H that she is NOT going to do that.

[Dr LOve]

Ya cali,

And I ALWAYS SAID if my wife cheats on me I would throw her out..

[Kali]

LOL, true. I always said the same.

[nephartiti]

I did push mine out! Now I can't get him to come back!

[Yoyowife]

You know how you hear about the LBS wanting to be confrontational with the OP. Well, I thought that was ridiculous...before it happened to me. I always said you should be angrier with the one that betrayed you because they had a committment to you. Whoa, was I wrong. I never did confront the OW but I certainly have held a lot more resentment for her than I have my H. Hate is a strong word, but I dislike her immensely. I know that H would have never strayed if he didn't want to, but you place all of your anger mainly towards the OP because you love your spouse. Your head can reason it out that your spouse is mainly reponsible, but you can't help but blame the OP. You think if they had not come on to my spouse this would have never happened, but you know that even though they may have the first move your spouse did not have to respond. I never thought I would have put up with so much BS from my H!

[Dr LOve]

Cali,

I am a conservative liberal. I am good at letting people do their own thing as long as is does not affect me or my family. However I did at least to myself judge people sometimes like for instance cheating Wives should be out on the street. If you are not happy with your marriage leave it.

Now here I am with a cheating wife and an unhappy marriage that I am not leaving (yet). Now I have learned you can never say never. In this last year

1. W got really sick. The doctors did not know what was wrong with her. I took time off of work to take care of her. I was afraid
She was not going to make it she recovered
2. I find naked pics of my W with OM
3. I need surgery (twice)
4. My jeep gets wrecked
5. W loses her job

I need to make a list of the good things though because I know there are more of them than the bad. I have “met” all of you for one.

Gota go W is pissed at something she is yelling at son in other room

Bye

Ya never know what is going to happen.

[LL44]

"2. I find naked pics of my W with OM"

Why did I not know this? I am so sorry!!!

[Kali]

uh oh, hope everything is all right husband.

you are right, you never know what is going to happen, and yes you need to make that positive list, we all do.