Ok, you are so right. I have my health, my kids are healthy, happy, fed, and clothed. I have a great job with security. We have a great house (that would also help us to buy smaller homes if needed). Ok, you are soooo right. It could be worse, and actually worse is happening around me (sick friend with cancer, severely depressed bil, etc).
I have to grudgingly admit that I am thankful H is healthy and a wonderful father. If we do separate/divorce, I will never have to worry about my girls' safety or happiness while they are in his care.
I am grateful for what I have. Thanks for reminding me.