Yes, I find that reading other people's sitches has sort of gotten me through the turmoil, knowing that others are going through similar, sometimes even worse.

At least I have my health, a beautiful daughter, great house (after we sell we will both have enough to invest in smaller homes), great job, fantastic friends and a few "dreams" that W would not let me do when we were married.

So all in all, it could be a whole lot worse. We should be thankful for what we have had, and what we have got.