This is tough. I know you will be smart about this. The thing is, it could be just as Rob's saying. After we've been through this crap, it's common to have some PTSD and that can really F with your instincts. That took me a long time to fully get, and through the years I realized that because of my fears I was bringing more of this crap on in a way.
What is your plan for tonight?
Sticking to the facts, your feelings have been hurt by your H. I can clearly see why. Just don't overreact. You really don't deserve that kind of hurt. You really don't. Be kind to yourself. Know that you are loved. Don't put yourself through that right now. Don't create that kind of pain. Hopefully you are not doing that, but I know how easy it can be to do just that. We think we are preparing ourselves for what we see is likely coming, and don't want to be surprised by it. These are often just fears talking. OK, just blabbing. You're strong and confident... and you are a master DBer.
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Me: 37 M: 14 yrs Separated 10/06; Filed for D 12/07 Life is good.
