Hearing that you've got a T involved might be the best thing. Although W seems to be working things out in her mind, again I have to worry if she really has a good handle on what needs to be addressed. Right now I'm not going to push it, perhaps when things have settled down and I have a better read on what the sitch really is. For now I'm taking the positives as such and showing a little faith and confidence in W. The next few weeks I think she will see how much she truly needs me and that the grass is still greener here.

The interaction from W seems to be increasing and once again we are talking about events and starting to work as a couple again. I'm making sure I'm using proper DB techniques and trying not to solve all her problems for her. Seems funny at times when W will notice problems, that we had ourselves only a few months ago, in other peoples R and state what they need to do to fix it. \:\) I'm glad I'm not the only person who has learned something.

Cat03, as long as H keeps seeing T, there is going to be some change. Hopefully he will listen to what is being said and move in the right direction sooner. (((((Hugs)))))