Ok NDDT. First off...why oh why extend the olive branch? It does you no good. Nothing you say will magically change her mind and if she does change her mind, it is up to her to tell you. Don't waste your breath.
Second...a very wise person on here once told me not to mask sadness with anger. That is what I hear from you. You say that you have a little bit of hope that she will consider what you have to say..but then you if she doesn't you want to take her to the cleaners? That makes no sense to me? Why would you want her to consider anything if you want to also screw her as bad as you can?
And trust me..the moment people start acting like that is when everyone loses. Does you no good my friend.