Puddle- I've been meaning to ask you if you think your H is in a MLC? I keep going back and forth on that with my sitch, since my H has some signs of it, but doesn't seem to be a classic case. If it's a MLC, I think much of the process deals with waiting it out, waiting for them to wake up and see what idiots they've been. Just curious about your thoughts on dealing with MLC...


me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08