WAW filing for D

[dlt1]

Hello folks! Bitterness is fading a bit.
Talked to a F who made me realize how good we have it. As short a version as I can make it:
His sis was M. H cheated and had kid. Sis had no idea. Found out by coming home early when kid was about a yr old and found H trying to hang himself. She freaked and saved him. He confesses and tries to just keys into his throat. She again stops him. They agree to work on things b/c M is sooooo imprtant. Things go well for many months. Then H 180's into womanizer and sis says no mas. gets a decent settlement (they have no kids) H has a company. He stops paying his portion, sis sells condo at loss. life is bad. parents aren;t happy she hid it all until the last straw.
Sis remarried a few months ago to a wonderful guy.
I think we can manage if we wish too
back to my sitch. Telling W Sat that i am filing as soon as we finish packing. Done and done! She is really worthless to me anymore. I see no changes coming and doubt I care to. Ok maybe still a little bitterness, but I just feel like I once again have to take control b/c she is doing whatever she wants whether we are M or not. I actually need the D before I can carry on and find happiness. Oh the ride that is a coming. Surf's up! Which wave will i catch first?