Now I've done it

[nephartiti]

I lost it.. again! Darn me! I confronted him re: OW again and of cousre got no where! Just did more damage. He called me, said he's spoken to a lawyer but hasn't filed. Wants to take care of himself and be able to see his kids. He's given up everythin. said I'm self absorbed. I have a bed and a place to live while he's living outb of his van. I told him that was his choice. He has a home that he chose to leave. He doesn't see it that way. Said he's not safe because I put him in jail for hitting me and his life could have been ruined if he had been convicted. Not willing to go to MC.

Now what?!?

Do I try to file first? He said he was talking to a lawyer. I asked if he wanted a divorce. Said he was thinking about it. Asked if that meant yes. Then he asked if I wanted one. Told him no, that when I spoke to a Lawyer it was just to cover my bases and find out what I was looking at re: child support.

I decided I better end the conversation before I pushed him anymore. Let him talk to the kids and told him to let me know if he wanted to see them.

OK everyone, let me have it. What do I do now?