But I think the same way as you, H gets alone time with our kids (since I work at night), he gets to go out all weekend, because I'm watching the kids and can't tell him to stay home (per DB), and I bring in good money. But in all those mention of good things, where do I land? The schmuck that is left at home, unwanted by her own H. Kids needs are met (thank God, don't get me wrong), H's needs are met, what about us? The LBS? We get eggshells and elephants in the room.
I think somethin's gotta give in our house too. H knows all too well I want this to work out, so he is in control.
