My H blames me 100% for our problems before his affair, and deep down I think he justifies his A because of our problems. He is definately in a fog, most definately.
Oh the kids. Its awful isn't it, to see their beautiful faces, and realize this might change their lives forever. All because of something that CAN be fixed, but our spouses aren't willing to try. Mine are 3 and 5 yrs old, and its hard enough to explain why Daddy is sleeping on the couch, much less anything else that might happen down the road.
This is a fantastic place. A private place for yourself, where you can be guaranteed that someone understands. Take care.
