Also HD I have to garee with the others about the boundary when it comes to your children. When I married my husband I had 2 kid's. I can't say lost of great things about my husband right now. But I can say one great thing. He has been the best stepdad in the world. They to him are his own children. They call him dad and love him very much. Even though we had two children together we are one family united. There is no difference at all. But believe me if things were different I would have set boundaries. She really sounds like a hateful person. I am sure this causes tension with the ex wife expecially if the kid's feel the way they are treated there by her.
