I can definately say that you've helped keep me positive. It's tough some days though. I think today has been one of my worst so far. Just feeling bleck...as lwb says.
lwb....my H does leave his phone unattended after a certain time of night. That's what gets me in trouble. That's when I look. If I'm correct about who OW is, they know each other's work schedules and that's when they contact each other....on the way to/from work.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day