There are plenty of people pointing out what you say. The reason I point out the opposite is because there needs to be some balance around here. What's wrong with that? I think people focus so hard on their spouses they actually do themselves a disservice towards their original goal. Like I said look at all the divorces. Perhaps there is a better way and that is what I am trying to get to for these people. Tell me what your goal and I will support the hell out of you towards that end. I just won't use the rose-colored glasses. They can cloud your vision.
As for successes, I have plenty who have told me that my viewpoint has helped them to become a success.
