The preparations by the way include redirecting my paycheck to a different account that she cannot access, so I will then control the cash flow.
It seems crass to move a marriage to this material level, and I hope it doesn't turn ugly as a result. We have at least 6 months more together after all -
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.