Oh they are such button pushers. And yep, do 100 things for them, and 99 of them are perfect. They have to comment on the 1 thing that didn't go well. And yes, never one has my H told me I am a good mother (I am, darnit) or anything like that. He once said "You should know what a good mom you are". Oh spare me. He is a very involved parent too, but lately I notice he is even more involved when other moms are around, so then I hear "You are sooo lucky to have him! I would kill for my H to be that attentive". He eats that sh*t up and it makes me sick now. Remember, my H cheated with a playgroup mom (friend of mine), so I am sure that's how he reeled her in. VOMIT

Sorry, got lost in my rant. ;\)

About the money. I would just keep a secret eye on that account and try to let it go. Or at least let it go on the outside.